It's as if modern society has pinned me down with a wrestling move and all I can do is to struggle and surrender.

Hey, no one said living in modern society is easy. And yeah, it's kind of sad. Even styling your hair for going to work matters. No really, it matters. You don't look good. People will talk about it. It'll make you feel bad. And you'll have no choice but to do it, even if it's against your wishes. I guess that's being a citizen of modern society, if that's what it means.